Almost every person
At some point
Will express a desire for
"The good ol days"
For simpler times
Where things were better
Easier
Or superior to now.
Whether referring to
Technology
Food
Music
Values, or even just
Rent prices
It's all the same thing, at its core.
This desire is totally natural,
And it's not what we think it is.
Driving it
Is a feeling of unsafety,
Uncertainty,
Or unbelonging in this current time
And a wishing for a different time
In which they felt safer,
More able to navigate their perceived world
More in control.
Where they understood their world
And felt understood in it.
So if you hear someone yearning for "the good ol days,"
Feel the Come-From of this statement,
And respond to that, rather than the words themselves
And watch the person's heart
Begin to feel understood.